Monday, May 18, 2009

What do you think?

Have your ever wondered how easy it is to say "Believe in yourself" and not understand it's depth? How easy it is to say "I'm sorry" or "Thank you" and not mean it? Another of those cliched and overrated phrases which come as easy as breathing. 


Have you ever wondered what goes on in the minds of those who dare to go against conventional wisdom and follow their hearts? Take the case of this IIM graduate (Now IIM's in India are as hallowed as a Kellog, Harvard,MIT or University of California at Berkeley is in the United States) who decided to give up lucrative offers  from Multinational Companies and sell vegetables. The news came as a shock to many. I wonder how how his near and dear ones must have reacted to this decision. Conventional wisdom dictates that you do what you set out to do. You slogged it out for several years to get into that hallowed an institution and destiny rewarded your efforts by giving you an offer the world would envy. At 21 you have the entire world at your feet and you earn more than you can ever spend. You are the cynosure of everyone's eyes. But you decide to chuck it all and follow your heart. Is that decision easy? You might say that the gruelling MBA sessions made the poor fellow loose his marbles. But we also know that is not true. Would you do it if you were in his shoes? Would you let your children or siblings do it if you had a say? 

In this world, and more so in India, there are very few professions which really pay. Which is why parents push their offsprings to be where it counts the most. It isn't easy to find your place in the sun hence conventional wisdom defeats the yearnings of the heart every single time. Who does not want his child to be an Engineer or a Doctor? Who does not want his/her spouse to be a highly accomplished professional? Somewhere in the process, talent looses it's voice. When you get trained under the best, you are bound to deliver. No one is that big a dimwit. It's all about opportunity and how to grab what is rightfully yours.

But if everyone were to follow what conventional wisdom and professional degrees dictate, the world would be very different from the one we know. Every profession no matter how big or small has it's importance, without which the system wouldn't function correctly. Which is why you hear of professionals in the prime of their careers give it all up to follow their heart. Which is why you hear of people give up plum bank jobs and turn to writing. Of people who give up a management job and take up singing or the fine arts. If you do what you like doing the most, you are automatically driven to better your best every single day. 

It might sound very far-fetched but if you do what you like to do the most and are happy in the true sense of the word, it really does not matter if you don't earn more than you can spend. Atleast the stress does not kill you because a "job" does not feel like a "job". Atleast at the end of the day you sleep happy. When you are driven to deliever you best, success, recognition, fame and money come on their own. At least that is what I'd like to believe!!

The IIM Graduate who chucked it all up to sell vegatables must have really believed in himself. He must have faced tremendous opposition from friends, family and peers and flak from the world around. But he didn't budge from his decision. This is the stuff that dreams are made of. It reminds me of the story of the Father, son and their donkey ( to know more click the link!)

Believe in yourself, and according to your belief it will be done unto you! (Now can you challenge it's intelligence?) 

Don't let people drive you crazy when you know it's in walking distance.  ~Author Unknown

12 people were gracious enough to leave comments:

Wanda..... said...

So many times in the world of "making it" one loses their identity and self worth...Better to change course than lose oneself...

The road a young person sets out on sometimes changes course...because they peronally change with life experiences...

No one way is right for everyone...we all have value in this world...but contentment comes from being true to yourself.

Sparkling said...

Hmmmm...
You know I have a very different perspective to this.

There is s'thing as being able to afford to what you dream and then the other one who needs to think twice (very hard!) to be able to do what they dream - or simply, cannot afford to do what they dream.

Who doesn't love doing what they love and getting paid for it as well (Road to Perdition says it in the most effective way), but then...

It might me a bit confusing to u'stand but thats coz I'm just not being able to be articulate. I'll try another day :)

'If you do what you like doing the most, you are automatically driven to better your best every single day.' - GOOD THOUGHT!

Bernie said...

Someone once told me "do what you love to do and then find a way to get paid for it" I cannot imagine doing anything just for money or to pretend to be someone I'm not just so others approve of me. I am who I am, and even at my age I continue to grow, learn, live, and love. I truly believe our choices should be made for our better life and in turn when our choices brings us happiness we are able to bring happiness to others. Notice the use of "first person" as these are only my opinions, I keep my mind and heart open at all times while respecting other's opinion. Your post makes for dialogue which is a great thing for everyone. Thank you for this......:) Bernie

Tranquility Speaks said...

WANDA: Very true! Can't argue that :)I guess following your heart is the ONLY way to contentment!

STILL THINKING: I get what you're saying. What you like to do doesn't always pay, and you have to take that into consideration, because being practical always pays! Had it not been for the recession, you would not be hearing of all this from me :-)

BERNIE: I completely agree with the thought do what you love to do and then find a way to get paid for it! You couldn't have summed up my article better. Thank you Bernie :-) It's not that it's impossible to what what you dislike doing, or doing things for money, but sooner or later, the dissatisfaction will catch up with you..If practicality can match ambition, you can't be asking for more :-)

Adisha said...

Firstly I truly believe, there's a big difference between being literate and educated and These days the line between has become like a ravine ... We need more people who are educated rather than just getting a degree for the sake of it. Don't get me wrong !! Getting a degree is very important, but then do it becoz You want to , not becoz it's " in " or your family wants u to. For later on, in time once the career gets mono tonous, one tends to jump off the band wagon to do what they truly want or go mad with frustrations !!

Better than that, take time, decide what you want to do in life and do what you love doing no matter what it is !!! Atleast, the person who really wanted that coveted seat in the coveted university will Use it to the fullest . :)

Tranquility Speaks said...

ADISHA: So agree with your views! That is how it should be! Some dare to follow their dreams, while other submit to demands and expectations.. Ultimately sooner or later we rediscover ourselves and end up doing what pleases us the most!

Scattered Thoughts... said...

I agree with still here.. its not always possible to do what you actually wanna do.. there are so many factors like circumstances, background, family responsibilities etc. to name a few which actually affect your decision instead of just your liking..

All in all listening to your heart does not always work coz that is not practical some times or that is not feasible some times and one has to use brains for this.. and guess that is how it actually is supposed to be.. mind to think and heart to pump the blood or whatever !! :)

Tranquility Speaks said...

SCATTERED THOUGHTS:What you say isn't wrong. Practicality counts. Sure does. Which is why I said that there are very few professions that really pay. You can't just do anything and be respected for it unlike in some other countries! But in the end, when all our priorities have been taken care of, we do turn to what we've always dreamt of doing. Even so, with all the pressures and demands of circumstances and situations, some people still go ahead and follow their dreams. This is what I meant by believing in yourself no matter what the world thinks!

Corinne Rodrigues said...

Nice blog you've got here and a new follower!
Corinne

Tranquility Speaks said...

CORINNE: Thank you so so very much for the follower bit :D Am beaming :D Am glad you like what I write :-)

ethereal-lily said...

a true blogger!

Tranquility Speaks said...

ETHEREAL LILY: Thanks :)